Mother’s suitcase, packed tightly before leaving： What did you pack in your suitcase when you returned from the Spring Festival？

　　[Editor’s note]

　　How much do you know about the Spring Festival?

　　Standing at the beginning of 2019, which is changing at a second speed, we ask an "old-fashioned" question. As many people know, there are various manners and customs in the Spring Festival, such as endless dinners and parties that can’t be pushed off, and the resulting nostalgia and social embarrassment … …

　　But you know what? The Spring Festival is not only a festival, but also contains social changes, economic development, and every tiny change you bring. On February 4, 2019, Zhongxin.com launched a series of planning "Do you know the Spring Festival", trying to outline the great changes in China’s social landscape through the little changes you and I have made in the Spring Festival.

　　Chinanews. com client Beijing, February 10 th:[Do you know the Spring Festival] Mother’s suitcase is packed tightly before leaving: What’s in your suitcase when you return during the Spring Festival?

　　Author Park Lina

　　Probably many people are not very good at discovering the details of life, which makes every little detail found precious.

　　Since a long vacation, some netizens posted that Weibo "spit" that his mother had brought him too many things, only to let everyone find that "it turns out that all mothers are the same". One after another, the "suitcase competition of love" was staged repeatedly.

　　There is a kind of love called "opening the suitcase"

　　What was stuffed in your suitcase when you left home?

　　Jiaozi wrapped by mother, steamed steamed bread by father and smoked pig’s trotters by grandma … … There is hardly any suitcase that can leave the house with a gap.

　　From the northeast to Beijing, more than 1000 kilometers, Xiao Nan has left home to go to college for the eighth year. In fact, according to the speed of today’s high-speed rail, such a distance is not far. But this can’t stop Xiao Nan’s mother from trying to fill her daughter’s box at the end of each holiday.

　　"At first, I felt quite happy. After all, everything in Beijing is not the taste of home." At that time, many things that she brought back to Beijing were requested by herself, and later she found that the situation was "out of control".

　　From half a catty of pine nuts to three catties of pine nuts, from a bag of kimchi to a box of kimchi, from a bag of northeast rice to a sack of northeast rice … … This advanced process took Xiao Nan’s mother less than two years. "I dare not say what I want now, otherwise the suitcase may be heavier than me … … Oh, even one year, the suitcase couldn’t fit, and my mother sent it to me. As a result, it was too solid, and the box ‘ Fried ’ … "

　　Sisi, who has been married, has also had some headaches because of the suitcase filled by her parents. "If my husband didn’t hold it, I would definitely not be able to carry it. I once weighed it, and a box was stuffed almost forty or fifty kilograms!"

　　After marriage, Sisi can’t return to her family until the second day of the Spring Festival every year. On this journey from her husband’s family to her mother’s family, she has to go through the process of stuffing her suitcase with things other than clothes twice a year. "I always prepare an extra box when I go home now, especially for two mothers. I am not only their children, but also between them ‘ Porter ’ ！”

　　Distance produces a beautiful "suitcase of love"

　　However, Nini, who is also studying abroad, seems to be "bleak". During her years of studying, her suitcase has always been "how to get there".

　　"I come gently and walk gently, and I will never take away a cloud at home!" Nini’s tone is slightly joking. She joked that her mother’s behavior of not stuffing her suitcase was "probably the distance is gone and the beauty is gone."

　　But in fact, her suitcase can "survive" because her school is too close to home — — "It takes longer to get from school to the train station than it takes me to get home from this city. My home is so close. So my mother said, call me if you want to eat, and then I will buy a ticket for 20 yuan and go home to eat. "

　　"So, my mother always says that it is good to be close to home. If you want to eat, you will have it right away!"

　　When it is broken, it is broken, and it is not disturbed.

　　Tianqi and her husband, who have been married for the third year this year, returned to their parents’ home on the second day of the Spring Festival this year, but left on the fifth day. However, there are almost no "other things" in her and her husband’s boxes.

　　"In the past, when I was at school, she (Tianqi’s mother) would bring me all kinds of food and play, and she would also prepare some more parts for me, saying that she would let me give them to my classmates, but it was really too heavy. I didn’t feel so hard to change water in the university dormitory. " Tianqi thought it was probably because she grew up independently. Since she felt that she didn’t need these things, she stopped her mother in time.

　　Anything you want to eat, play or drink, and anything you can solve at home, you can solve it at home. This is Tianqi’s "coup".

　　"The main thing is that it is also very convenient now. I can buy everything online, and I don’t want them to toss and turn in order to prepare something. My parents are old and tired. " After all, Tianqi is still worried about his parents.

　　It’s just a suitcase, and some people may think that such attention is too much to make a mountain out of a molehill.

　　But only people who are wandering outside know that all the year round, only those things in this suitcase can make children feel as if their parents are around.

　　Some netizens said: "We have long been used to reporting good news instead of worrying, and they have no way of knowing whether we are good or not outside. All the year round, only this small suitcase will make them feel that they are still ‘ Useful ’ I can’t bear to refuse … …”

　　So later, after a long time, Xiao Nan learned to tolerate her "heavy" suitcase: "She is always afraid that I can’t eat well, but I am still at school, so take it with me, at least my mother can rest assured!"

　　There is a kind of love,

　　It’s called "open the suitcase" … …

　　No matter how heavy the suitcase is,

　　Can’t be more important than the love of parents.

　　Parents are there, and life is still there;

　　When parents go, there is only a way home in life.

　　The new year,

　　When you are full of desire to go out.

　　Please don’t forget to look back,

　　Family members who have been with you.

　　The Spring Festival holiday is over,

　　Are you ready to return?

　　With the love of parents,

　　Re-embark on the journey of struggle!

　　The new year,

　　Please continue to refuel!