Those who dare to criticize you at night must cherish it.

Shakespeare said, "One would rather hear a hundred beautiful lies than a straightforward truth."

In our work and life, we will deal with all kinds of people and hear thousands of words from their mouths.

What should be filtered and what should be listened to is always testing the skill of being a man.

The most rare thing in dealing with people is to listen to criticism; The most precious thing is to cherish those who dare to criticize you.

There is a saying: "Nothing in the world is more difficult than telling the truth, but nothing is easier than flattery."

Flattery is not difficult to hear, and many people will say it because it is neither laborious nor offensive.

Criticism is often unpleasant and hurtful, and it may be disliked if it is spoken, and it will also destroy the relationship.

In contrast, those who can speak frankly to you and dare to point out your shortcomings are particularly precious.

A Bei, a friend, opened a breakfast shop a few months ago, but his business has been tepid and he can’t return to Ben, which makes him very worried.

His uncle is also a caterer. Once he went back to Abei’s for breakfast, he criticized the decoration and hygiene of the store with a loud voice.

Although the scene was a bit embarrassing, Abei sounded reasonable, and then corrected it, and the business really improved a lot.

Later, A Bei personally came to thank his uncle, who hated iron and talked about his son. Since he gave him the hotel at home, he refused to listen to his opinions and refused to change it. Business was getting worse every day.

It’s not terrible to criticize you, it’s terrible to be disappointed in you.

In today’s society, there are too many people who believe in the creed of "you can’t throw all of my heart all at others".

If you don’t really care about it, who wants to say "ugly words" and do such a thankless thing?

The mouth is merciful, and the heart is merciful. Although those sweet words don’t hurt people, they are not reliable; Advice and criticism are thankless, but the most sincere.

Therefore, when you meet those who dare to criticize you, cherish them and don’t chill their hearts.

It is very important for a person to look at himself correctly.

And "the bystander is clear, the authorities are confused". Many times, we are all flashlights, and we can only see others, but not ourselves.

People around you can often find your shortcomings and deficiencies from different angles. But for one reason or another, most people won’t tell you even if they see it.

Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. If a person always chooses something nice to listen to, it is tantamount to wrapping himself in a sugar-coated capsule. Although it is sweet and comfortable, it is difficult to have room for growth.

The outspoken advice and even sharp criticism from people around you, although uncomfortable to listen to, should be aware that those voices are providing an opportunity to improve themselves.

Please cherish them and listen carefully. They are a mirror for you and help you recognize yourself.

"If a tree is not pruned, a jade is not cut, and a tool is not cut", and pertinent criticism can help you cut off your redundant branches and carve out your own flaws, so as to grow into a more valuable "beautiful jade".

Shakespeare said: "whoever tells me the truth, even if there is death in his words, I will listen to it as if I were complimented."

There is not much truth in the world, and criticism itself is an intangible wealth, which can help us avoid many detours.

On the long road of life, I hope you and I can meet people who are willing to tell each other the truth and dare to face criticism.

Then, cherish them.

[Author: Du Lanjun, this article first appeared in Du Lan, WeChat official account (ID: Dulantea). Be a ferryman in your heart with beautiful writing. 】

Editor: Xu Xiaoxiao

Proofreading: Wang Yan

Producer: Liu Feng

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